Our expert says:
Its probably not something specific about you ( like the perfume you wear ) that attracts the committment phobic man ; but probably you haven't been very skilled at identifying them early on within a relationship ( raher than letting things drift for 8 years before recognizing him for what he was ). Obviously, many of the pro-committment men are already, well, committed ! So more of those who are scared of or not yet capable of committments, will be among the pool of unmarried and uncommitted men. A counsellor would be able to work with you in detail, to examine these experiences, to see what signs you may have missed, what ways you could clarify the guys intentions and capabilities, earlier on.
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