Our expert says:
If he is indeed a colf, feelingless person, he will NOT change without reasonably lengthy proper formal psychotherapy with a skilled local shrink, in which he sincerely and eagerly collaborates. YOu sound as though you actually formed a relationship with the guy you wanted him to be rather thasn with the guy he is, or assumed that he would transform himself from who he is to who you wanted him to be. That doesn't happen.
How could the shrink who apparently the pair of you saw for counselling, have failed to understand how he is and the influence of his childhood ? Excessively dumb shrink, or did neither your bf nor yourself clearly explain what you both know about this, to the shrink ?
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