Our expert says:
Well, Duke it does sound a little confusing, like a mixed message. What she's doing sounds so much like a woman who is really trying to attract a man's sexual interest and attention, presumably yours --- yet you say that she's acting cold towards you. And when, instead of explaining, someone gets excessively angry, defensive, and accuses you of not trusting them, this often means that they actually do have something to defend, and that they know you have reasons not to trust them. Sould she perhaps be having an affair with someone else ? Or, as Kay says, maybe planning one ?
Take Chelle's point seriously, but I have never heard of a woman trimming her pubic hair just to make herself feel confident, and not for someone else to appreciate. And if she has indeed done this before, the chances are greater that it is happening again.
Carol --- surely the person who has the absolute duty to communicate honestly and not avoid it, is the wife, in a situation like this ? She's done it before, and is behaving exactly as if she is doing it aain, and refusing to discuss it ---- if it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, maybe it's time to buy duck-food ?
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