Our expert says:
Your husband has a duty to intervene with his family, to make sure they understand, for instance, that yours is a small home and their visits make it crowded, and that his mom ought to pull her weight to help when visiting. Maybe you need to find a way to have your TV out of order when she visits.
She sounds bad mannered, maybe out of her depth with a more modern household like yours ? If she helped with the cooking, she could have useful input as to what she does and doesn't like, and could also see what nice ingredients went into something she isn't familiar with, so she might dare to try it.
If your inloaws want to stay in gues accomodation that is wise of them, and really foolish of your husband to refuse. Suggest to him that they can move in while YOU will move out and stay in guest accomodation! It doesn't sound as though HE pulls his weight in household chopres, either. Maybe this way he'd learn !
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