Our expert says:
I entirely agree with Maria. Your friend is struggling nobly to pay off other people's debts. Some people might think ( but less, these days ) that her reputation was tarnished when she had children with a man who neglected her and the children he fathered with her ; but even an idiot wouldn't think any the less of her for going to Maintenance Court to force the deadbeat dad to pay proper maintenance for his children.
She owes this to herself, and especially to her children, and to all other women and children, to confront a deadbeat "father" and teach such men that they have an unavoidable and inescapable duty to pay for their children. Any animal can have sex and create children - it takes a real man to face his responsibilities and provide proper care for those children. Mothers usually do this, and shouldn't allow men to avoid taking proper responsibility for their actions and choices.
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