Our expert says:
I'm sure our other readers should be able to help here, based on their own experience with maintenance problems. Surely the people at the Maintenance Court ought to be able to advise you here, and maybe get a court order to have the maintenance deducted from his earnings first, before he receives the rest. It soesn't matter WHAT he thinks you or your mother may do with the money -- maintenance has to be paid. By him. To you. For the child.
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