Our expert says:
Sounds a sadly familia story. And another variety of double standards --- when I do it, it's a mistake ; if YOU did it, it would be an outrage. You can't assume that he has not acted on these elaborate preparations for infidelity, and could be at risk for HIV or other STD from him. Why should you forgive him ? YOu may, evbentually, choose to do so if it turns out to be sensible. but you are by no means required to do so. See a personal counsellor to sort out your own feelings and reactions, and consider marriage counselling as a way of exploring whethwer he can indeed reform his sloppy and selfish ways
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