Our expert says:
If I were to judge from the messages I get here, theres' hardly anyone in the country who doesn't go through their partner's cell-phone. Some, i self-defence, use complex passwords, etc., what puzzles me is how many keep incriminating messages etc., as trophies, despite the risk involved.
And you have run into the basic dilemma --- you discovered incriminating evidence, but can't act on it without revealing that you snooped --- AND enabling him to focus on atacking that rather than explaining himself, as he ought to. But you're right --- he has not only ignored your feelings and his duty to nhis child, but placed your life at risk. Only you can decide how to handle this, but work towards being able to remain calm when you tell him what you have discovered ( anger begets anger and loses clarity ) ; and to insist on keeping the focus on his infidelity and endangering you, as being immensely more important that your looking through his phone
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