Our expert says:
If he not merely cheated, but has continued to cheat only more carefully, he is wronging you and owes you an explanation for being so unkind. Marriage counselling can only help if you both sincerely want it to help.
Now, don't be too absolutist and catastrophize -" our lives have been changed forever and there is no hope that we will ever rebuild our family" - fortunately that isn't necessary true or compulsory.
If he has been cheating on you with a woman he knew was already cheating on her fiancee, he is not going to find any happiness with such a woman, is he ? She will soon run out of cake. Someone may well tell her fiancee, who shouldn't perhaps be left to marry a cheat without due warning.
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