Our expert says:
This was a whole lot more than cheating --- she lied to you, carefully and repeatedly, and had the incredible cheek to expect you to pay for her to go to her lover, having planned to cheat you in this elaborate way for a considerable time ! Lord knows what she's oplaying at now, but obviously if she missed you so much, let alone "needed you", she wouldn't have gone away, and now she would simply come back. So stop taking any calls or messages from her or her lover, and ignore them completely. They don't deserve your attention, let alone compassion. Change your phone number and email address. And what chek her family has to hassle you at all. Ignore them, too.
You loved them too easily, too uncritically, but have learned your leson --- not that one should not love, as you should, but to know people better, and like them for longer, before "loving" them. She has to learn to live with the consequence of her actions, and if she isn't left to learn this now, she will only hurt herself and other people all the more in the coming years.
Yes, pack her things and leave them with her mother, and at the security gate --- there is nothing to be gained from talking with her mom, who surely knew something about this all along. You owe nothing whatever to her mother, and should not expose yourself to further pleasing and discomfort.
Time DOES heal, but you actually, despite your discomfort, haven't given it much time.
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