Our expert says:
So here is an often un-recognized side-effect of surgery that effectively heals birth defects ! After years in which you probably felt neglected and overlooked because the defect, of course you enjoy the new attention you receive - but don't insist on confusing admiration for looking good with sexual flirting. People can appreciate you for your looks, and/or your personality, without wanting sex with you, and without you needing to flirt with that edge to it. A counsellor could help you to adjust better to this new situation.
You know well that dating anyone else IS cheating on your husband, emotionally even if not yet physically. And sleeping wih other men, well that is definitely cheating, and espeially unfair to the man who loved you despite the defect, and who definitely does not deserve this. You don't need to behave like a teenager now - you didn't miss as much as it probably felt like to you at the time. See a counsellor, on your own at first, and then maybe some couples counselling, too
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