Our expert says:
These things actually do NOT "just happen" --- you allow them to happen, or you don't allow them to happen. Do I understand you that you are married, started an affair with another man ( you don't mention whether or not he, too, is married ) and then with another married man who is your best friend's husband ? You are indeed a lousy friend, and unfaithful toeveryone involved. You say these two men "require" your sexual attentions. How is that ? If they ask for it, refuse them and remind them that you are all married. If they somehow pressure you to have sex with them to keep your job, that is sexual harassment for which they could be sacked, and about which you should complain to the top management.
Stop the affairs indeed, and see a personal counsellor and then a marriage counsellor together with your unfortunate husband
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