Our expert says:
Now, cheating is a beastly thing to do, but "down", remember the death penalty has been abiolished.
lebo, you have created the situation you now find uncomfortable. WHy should she trust you ? If you continue to act lovingly and considerately, and without ever giving further grounds for suspicion, and make sure the mistress will never be in contact with you again, and if you ask her humbly to join you in marriage counselling, maybe you two can work something out. But it was wour cheating that damaged the marriage, not her understandable reaction to it. Put it right
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