Our expert says:
So you've been under an unusual amount of stress in recent months. And our guy behaved like a heel ( OK, one hears his excuses, but if the person you love is undergoing surgery, you don't waltz off to a club and get drunk ).
What is needed, if there is to be any realistic chance of this relationship healing and working properly, is for the pair of you to see a mariage counsellor / couples counsellor to work this through. If he ( or you ) are unwilling, then you would be wise to seek individual counselling to help you work through this successfully and usefully.
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