Our expert says:
OK, you have made a wise decision not to drink, for all the right reasons, and, if I understand what you say, simply because your bf was away briefly for a reasonable reason, you CHOSE to spend a day drinking ? Were there not other, better alternatives available ?
And it had one of the entirely predictable results ( though I wonder, if you decided to stay at home while drunk so as to avoid drunk driving ( applause !) how did you come to sleep with someone else ? An uncommonly friendly burglar ? Shouldn't you have, just as prudently as staying home, have locked the door and stayed home alone ? Who was able to take advantage of your vulnerability ?
As to how to tell your bf, presumably something along the lines of just what you said here, would work ? You express your frustration with yourself, and your regret, and your love for him, very adequately.
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