Posted by: Cool | 2004/11/16

Chatting 2 other teens via sms:Advice needed

Hi; are there any teens that chat 2 other teens via sms????
I have met this girl on the net & we have chatting 2 each other since the beginning of this year.She's from Durban & im from JHB. We have never seen each other.We are planning 2 meet in December as i will be in Durban.Im 19 & she's 18.We have got 2 know each other quiet well as we chat everyday via sms & phone each other now & then.Should i meet her????She seems 2 be a very nice person.We were thinking 2 send each other a photo via "camera phones" but then decided it would be better 2 meet as complete strangers...Should we send a photo first or just meet up.

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If you have been chatting for so long and you would like to meet her while you are in Durban why not speak to her about this and see if she is also interested in meeting. As always when meeting a stranger tell someone where you are going and always meet in a place where there are lots of people around such as a shopping mall. You can even take someone with you who will be in the area and you can then call them to come and meet you if the date isn’t going well and you want it to end. Sometimes photos can be deceptive and not like the real person, so it can often be better to meet in person and go from there.

Hope it works out for you – be safe.

Best wishes

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Posted by: Adam | 2004/11/17

M8 i would say maybe get her to take a pic of her self and send it to you cuz u odnt want to stuff some thing like that up, ive met a girl off the net one nicest person i could of ever met, she send me a pic befor so i knew sort of what i was expecting, and then wen i saw her she looked even better, so just be cautious, thats all ive got to say,

Good luck bud

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Posted by: ;-) | 2004/11/16

i would say... go for it, what have you go to lose! the only bad thing that could happen would be: she could turn out a stalker or she could be a totally different person to what she said she is! it's really up to you, if you really want to meet her, i think you should go for it!

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