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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi Steve and thanks for keeping us informed.... this is a profoundly difficult and challenging time for you and I appreciate your using the forum. You're doing the best thing possible by using a therapist and it seems, from what you're saying, that you're making steady progress. While the main issue is that you're being honest with yourself - full marks to you for this - you're grappling with finding a balance between being totally honest with your wife and feeling responsible for her feelings. I assume your therapist is helping you with this.
Please keep posting!
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