Our expert says:
It would be entirely reasonable. You are the parent, he is the child ; you pay for the phone and he calls. He should not be doing anything on it which he needs to keep secret from you . He is 14, you are not. Liza puts it excellently well. How you do it is worth using yout wisdom and skill and not being needlessly abrasive. That you can abd should do it, is non-negotiable.
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