Posted by: I | 2009/08/18


Hi, i have a friend who chose to live a sex free life( celibacy ).
its been a year now and what worries me is that she has a bf
and she told him at the beginning abt her choice bt as a man who was really in to her accepted her with her choice, n now i think when he took that decision, he probably hoped she would change her choice and give in to his way of life. he is frustrated and they constantly fighting abt every little thing and i think this celibacy issue has put a strain on their relationship.

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That may well be so, but he was warned...if she does't want to change her decision, he has to choose to live with it or leave..

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Posted by: Anon | 2009/08/24

Is it not possible that this woman could have been abused during childhood or brought up to believe sex is dirty and disgusting?

Her boyfriend was warned, cant blame her, i just feel sorry for her because she is missing ou on something beautiful and wonderful and a huge part of growth in any relationship.

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Posted by: DrLove | 2009/08/19

Keep youre big nose out of youre friend' s business!

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Posted by: P | 2009/08/19

untill married?

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Posted by: A | 2009/08/19

It is her choice to stay celibate and his to be with her. THey should communicate and sort it out.

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Posted by: Ja | 2009/08/19

Why would anyone, barring Nuns, make such a choice?

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