Our expert says:
It may well be that he is engaging in phone sex...The reasons for this MAY have nothing to do with you directly, but rather are part of his individual 'map' of what he finds arousing or possibly to meet other psychological needs. You do need to check out whether he is as content in the relationship (generally & sexually) as you are.
Your response to feel betrayed is not unusual, many partners would feel this way, and face it, if he didn't think it was a problem in the relationship, he wouldn't be doing it in secret...
Talk to him about it to try to understand from his perspective if he's willing to discuss it. It may be that you would benefit from professional support if he feels he can't stop it or can't understand your response...If he won't talk or won't stop this, it's then up to you as to whether you think you can accommodate this in your relationship
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