Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
thanks for sharing your story.
There is a lot of conflict in your relationship. You mention a good father and a helping husband yet there are lots of inconsistencies and the emotional roller coaster suggests some emotional abuse.
Staying in a marriage for the skae of the children has been recognise that it is not the best option. Children will eventually, if not already, be aware of the tension and the unhappiness. It is not a breakup per se which affects children but the ongoing parental conflict and unhealthy family situation.
You mention that he does fulfill your needs. Do you know what your needs are?
You would benefit from a pre divorce coaching consultation which will help you clarify your confusion.
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