Our expert says:
He has no right to keep cheating and to expect you to keep forgiving and forgetting --- this is one of the reasons I do NOT believe in "forgiveness" where there has been no genuine repentence by the person who erred. How dare he ask you to trust him COMPLETELY again, when he has proved that he is untrustworthy ? And what rubbish to say that IF you don't trust him totally, it might happen again ? If you DO trust him it could happen again, and probably will. WHy should you see yourself as in the wrong and needing to trust someone who has proved twice that he doesn't deserve to be trusted ? As Jelly says, trust must be earned, it can't be just given on demand. He is asking you to be insensitive, and unintelligent, and to fail to protect yourself, butto help him be a happy cheater. Unless he will agree to sincerely participate in marriage counselling, don't demean yourself just to make him a happy cheater.
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