Our expert says:
Remember, what your instincts are suggesting may not be literally true --- instincts are not infallible ; but if you feel instinctively that something is wrong, there may well be something wrong, not necessarily what you suspect as such.
But if the girl's mother is insisting that he leave the girl alone, you are not the only one with suspicions about what might be going on, and he can't just airily dismiss all these suspicions.
Isn't he interested in counselling --- not so as to fix something wrong with him ( which may be how he sees it ) but to help you both deal with your suspicions and the way, as he sees it, that you might be making an issue out of nothing ? If he can at least become engaged in counselling, he can perhaps then begin to understand the situation better, and see where he has fed those suspicions that bother him.
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