Our expert says:
Maybe he works to very different definitions to yours, but you're right, this was emotionally cheating, even if he oesn't see i that way. It may have been fair for him to protest that he had no intention of hurting you and didn't think it would be wrong, but not for him to insist that there IS nothing wrong with an act that hurts your feelings. It reminds us that one should be much more cautious about having babies with people until we really know them very well indeed. Surely the pair of youi do indeed need to discuss this serously --- could you persuade him to join you in marriage counselling for some sessions ?
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