Our expert says:
Have you, firstly, discussed this with the counsellor, directly ? Separate sessions may make sense at some stages in the process, but not as the main method ; and if such problems continue or worsen, the counsellor now should have a good uderstanding of your viewpoint, and shopuld also understand your husband's, and should be able to make good use of this knowledge, rather than keeping it in separate compartnents.
I know it's too easy to say, but do not despair. Maybe your counsellor / shrink isn't quite skilled enough in dealing with this particular type of problem. Maybe he's working to some larger plan, but over-looking the immediate effects on you, and overlooking the requirement that he explain any larger plan explicitly and clearly to you. Whatever the reasons, this situation MUSt be remediable. Discus it in detail with your shrink who has an absolute duty to take your concerns seriously, and to deal with them realistically. If not, you may need to see a different shrink
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