Our expert says:
Ah, Shanti, getting work can be hard to do, but it's impossible if he doesn't try. Maybe he's discouraged at not having succeeded yet. Maybe he's llooking for work for which he's not qualified or suited. Sounds like he's not very interested in being realistic about this, but presumably others are covering his costs and expenses. He sounds, dare I say it, lazy ? he doesn't really sound depressed, from your description, but only a proper asessment by a shrink could make sure about that. if he was gay, he'd be very unlikely to have managed enough interest and energy to have 2 children, and it wouldn't make him lazy --- most gays, like most straights, are as energetic and hardworking as anyone else. Advise him to keep this job he has now, and to sell the vegetables in his spare time and weekends, to see how profitable it is ( or isn't ).
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