Our expert says:
It seems to me that even talking of a "baby mama" makes the serious issue of men lightly making babies with different women without being seriously concerned about the relationship with the woman or the child, seem light and not so significant. Sorry to hear you've had such bad luck with your choice of partner.
Anyhow, you may find our HIV forum useful for discussing with others with similar experiences, how they have handled such issues as disclosure of HIV status
Are you sure it's wise to give up on the possibility of other relationships, and assume you'll be happy to go back to someone who may have been the guy who contributed the HIV to your life, and has shown continuing irresponsibility in producing at least 2 baby mamas as well ?
Wouldn't it be wiser to wait and continue to explore, to find someone who properly respects and loves you ( and only you ) ?
As Just Me implies - first start by loving yourself, then take your time to find the right loving partner.
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