Our expert says:
Congratulations on that brilliant breakthrough, Suri ! I often try to remind people that babies are not superglue --- it is always wrong to "have a child" to try to keep a broken marriage together. Children are people in their own right, and it must NEVER be thought of as the child's task to try to maintain a lousy marriage the parents broke, any more than it is fair to expect an infant to fix the engine of the parents's broken car.
Of course you are not a failure --- they failed, and, probably accidentally, persuaded you to blame yourself for their failings !
You have also provided a perfect example of how such breakthroughs can occur ( something we seek in therapy )--- and how well someone with excellent intelligence, like you, can by recognizing a different interpretation of events, achieve liberty ! Superb ! That was the sound of a penny dropping !
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