Our expert says:
Sounds like you were very sensible, Kay --- unless something definitive has been done, as in couples counselling, to solve the problems that have arisen and to prevent future problems, it is indeed rather likely thaqt they will recur. And one might be concerned that he "decided he had made a mistake" only when you ad started dating someone else. Dont rush back into the relationship simply to try to ease his grief and his loneliness as such. He should see a counsellor to work on his own sadness and grief, and if you want to seriously consider getting back with him, decide this only after you two have worked for a while with a relationship counsellor. You are both grieving for the loss of your mutual friend, and that is indeed very sad, but not a good reason for getting back together again at this stage. I agree with Tango and Honey
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