Our expert says:
Happy all round ( well, almost all round - I have a short list of those I don't plan to wish a good new year !)
If one is properly committed to any relationship, you don't dump a partner with whom you have been for years, and even had kids, to "try something out " with a new bit of fluff from work - this isn't about experimenting with a new recipe for soup.
If he really thinks that having a baby together won't change anything for him, he's no at all fit to be a father. And if he still thinks it's fine to experiment with the work-fluff, while still planning a child with you - ditto.
Babies are not glue - having a child NEVER fixes a failing relationship. Sort out the relationship, either getting it healthy again, or giving it up if he can't bother being a real man about the responsibilities of having a child, before even thinking of having a child with someone so immature
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