Our expert says:
This sounds like another example of a couple who get married before they really know each other well enough. He sounds of very low self-esteem, badly organized, but very sensitive to seeing it as blaming him ( even when it isn't ) when anything about the household is criticised. He seems to see even discussion about problems, as a criticism.
You admit that you are very opinionated and talkative, and maybe he finds this especially hard to cope with.
Maybe you can persuade him to join you in marriage counselling, especially if you suggest that you feel this would help you to adjust better to marriage, and so that the pair of you can solve whatever problems turn up, working positively together, and without you upsetting him as seems to happen and as is not your intention ?
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