Our expert says:
Well, maybe he's a boyfriend "in your book", but have you checked to see what's written about this in HIS book ?
You seem, as unsure says, to assess the situation fairly realistically ; and if your assessment is at all accurate ( and I don't see why it wouldn't be ) then he might be OK as a friend among others, to spend some time with, but maybe not for a long-term relationship ? Sometimes, if we have enough trouble keeping our own act together and handling the problems of life, weneed a partner who can help, more than they would need to be helped.
Wouldn't the guy who even likes your warts (!) be a better bet all round ? And if the first guy doesn't see himself as your bf, is dumping necessary, rather than just clarifying that this is an informal and occasional pal-ship ?
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