Our expert says:
The reasons for his defensiveness need to be understood - I wonder whether he struggles to delay his ejaculation or whether he has other performance anxiety. Given his defensive approach, do you think you will get him to sex therapy? We do have people we can recommend in the Gauteng area - please email the SASHA helpline (firstname.lastname@example.org) and we'll send contact details that way.
Claire - SASHA
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