Our expert says:
I'm afraid that, from what you say, you have every reason to be worried. This man sounds like he has a very severe personality disorder and could be highly dangerous, and I can see no good reason for anyone wanting to have a relationship with him --- the concern should be more the issue that such men can be highly dangerous when someone with whom they have formed a relationship, try to leave them.
If he was abused as a child, that is no excuse for his present behaviour. In fact it is far more likely that this behavior has been encouraged by a family which spoilt him, and taught him that his tantrums would always bring him whatever he wanted.
Why not call a local branch of a group like POWA which helps abused partners, and can give expert and practical advice on freeing oneself from a destructive and dangerous relationship ?
It is totally imporible for this man to be helped unless and until he sincerely recognizes that he has a serious problem which needs halp, and voluntarily and sincerely seeks proper expert help for it.
The priority ought to be protecting you and others from his dangerousness.
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