Our expert says:
By the sound of your letter you can definitely benefit from professional intervention. You need to take the time to explore your feelings and thoughts. Settling down with a person as well as committing long term is a very important decision for yourself as well as your partner. The fact that you have “unfinished” business with the ex needs to be sorted before you can make an emotionally; mental and psychological decision to move into the future. You owe that to yourself and the partner you choose to move forward with. You and the girls in question are still relatively young so do not rush into a marriage decision before you have absolute clarity.
You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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