Our expert says:
I'm not sure that its ever actally good to Spoil kids, whatever the nature of the Spoiler or the circumstances. As Really says, why do so many of our attempts to bond get seen as having to involve buying STUFF ? Bonding comes more from time spent together doing interesting and rewarding things, rather than from shopping together and buying things. And as Really also wisely points out, your plan could lead to unsustainable expectations on the child's side. What also srikes me is that, maybe accidentally, you phrase your question as though you have not discussed the broader issue with the mother, and taken her advice nor do you seem to be expecting her participation.
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