Our expert says:
Sorry, but we don't have the facility for private communications by email with the experts through this site. You sound ambivalent here. If you loved him wisely, you wouldn't have a reason to want to leave --- maybe you love the man you want him to become ( which he won't !) rather than the man he actually is ?
A blackmailer, by definition, is not worthy of love. If he is realy threatening you with some form of harm, that's abusive, and you should call a group like POWA for specific advice on leaving safely.
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