Our expert says:
Surely she needs to explain her reasons, otherwise you, or rather your bf, can't assess whether the request is reasonable, and how long this changed siuation might last. Anything that is happening to the mother with custody is relevant, as it could affect her ability to maintain custody. I don't see grounds for secrecy. The experience will enable you to get used to having a kid around --- don't be too anxious and dont try too hard
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