Posted by: gily | 2007/08/08


I am staying 600km away from my boyfriend and everytime when he is around all he is interested in is sex at all times...and i sometimes do it just to satisfy him.... and i hate it.... am i wrong...and what can i do coz i told him that and he said he wont do that again.. and he will say that i dont want to do it with him...just to make feel guilty..

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You're not wrong at all. Presumably he is trying to be fiathful to you and abstaining while away from you, and trying to make up for it when you're together --- but of course he needs to keep things in proportion and respect your feelings and the enire relationship. Have you xplained to him that it's not about not wanting sex with him, but wanting much more in addition to mere sex ?

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Posted by: hope | 2007/08/09

Make your time together special, and enjoyable for you. Perhaps you could plan a date, doing something that you really enjoy, and at the end of the night you might feel more excited about the sex. He somehow, might think he is doing you a favor, by you going so long without sex. Some men find security in being able to "take care" of their woman. You might have to explain to him that you need taken care of in other ways. communication is key, without it, the distance between both of you will exist in more than just location.

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