Posted by: Bo | 2008/05/30

Best of both worlds

Guys I'm 34yrs old male and like to visit this world (Gay experience). My first experience was very nice ( Outsidde RSA)but I came back to RSA and discovered that it very hard to get a honest gay bottom. It seems that they are too busy to be commited to one person.

I often miss this and sometime I'd like to experience of being botton before I get married. Did any one experience it or I'm i look at the places. If so, were can I find gay bars or other social places for gays. I leave in Centurion but don't mind to travel.

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Hi Bo, welcome to the forum and thanks for posting.

Question: If you're getting married to a woman, how do you intend you reconcile or 'manage' you homo-erotic fantasies and urges?

Good suggestion from Gareth - find a copy of the monthly gay newspaper 'Exit', possibly in a branch of Exclusive Books or CNA. Its sold folded and in plastic.

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Posted by: Nikkits | 2008/06/01

Best of both worlds ???? - You have got to be kidding right ?


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Posted by: Rusta | 2008/05/30

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Posted by: Apache_boy | 2008/05/30

I agree with Gareth on this one... and with Bo as well, in the 5 months i have been "free" in joburg... its a whole nother lifestyle with everyone and i mean everyone (gay/str8/bi/white/black/pink/green, whatever) seems to be out there looking out just for themselves... i am not saying that you should look out for yourself... but spread the love guys n gals... be more open to friendship and life will improve 1000000 fold

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Posted by: Gareth | 2008/05/30

Bo, as we are not using this site for pick-ups, you will probably get clobbered for this. As for where to go, click on the Mambaonline link above here, and they have all the listings. Oherwise, buy the Exit paper from CNA.

Another question, why would you even consider getting married if this is who you are and what you like doing?

And remember to stay safe...

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