Our expert says:
Firstly, deal with the unfortunate child whose father has treated him so inconsiderately and clumsily, and get the lad to see a good local shrink for assessment and advice. Maybe your husband will pay more attention if he hears that the shrink has assessed the problem and considers that it needs help and that he needs to become part of the solution. It sounds as though he wouldnt consider marriage counselling, which would otherwise be useful. If he wont listen to you when you speak about this, would he read it if you put it all in a letter ?
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