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Posted by: Tweety | 2007/08/25

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Ek het dringend raad nodig. Hoe verduidelik `n mens vir jou man dat hy te veel druk en wantroue toepas op sekere van sy kinders terwyl die ander nie so erg geraak word nie. Die betrokke kind dreig al om weg te loop en het ook op `n kol selfmoord neigings gehad. Ek kan glad nie rustig met hom praat oor die probleem of enige van die ander probleme wat ons het nie. Hy raak elke keer woedend kwaad as ek dit durf waag om vir hom te probeer se dat iets onregverdig of verkeerd is. Dat word dit `n hewige bakleiery waartydens hy my vreeslik uitskel en dan aanse om my goed te vat en te loop. Ek wou al so baie keer loop maar ek het nerens om heen te gaan nie en ek weier om my kinders by hom te los. Dit is vir my duidelik dat hy nie een van ons meer in sy lewe wil he nie. Ek weet nie meer wat om te doen nie. Kan iemand my asb. raad gee?

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Firstly, deal with the unfortunate child whose father has treated him so inconsiderately and clumsily, and get the lad to see a good local shrink for assessment and advice. Maybe your husband will pay more attention if he hears that the shrink has assessed the problem and considers that it needs help and that he needs to become part of the solution. It sounds as though he wouldnt consider marriage counselling, which would otherwise be useful. If he wont listen to you when you speak about this, would he read it if you put it all in a letter ?

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