Posted by: Bo | 2008/07/25

Being with a gay

I' ve always thought that one of the reason for people to be in a relatioship with gays is that they don' t want to have the same experience as they are with the woman.

Now there' s this gay that I spend a night with. I simply asked him what does he like and made sure that he get it all from me but he failed to returm the favour. I think he' s selfish because that was our second (try)in our relationship and still no change.

I just think that I must dump the him because I' ve tried to tell him what do i want. I feel worse the next day because of unsatisfaction ETC. Please help..

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Hey Bo - how are you doing mister? Welcome to the forum and thanks for posting.

If this guy doesn't do it for you stop seeing him. Simple. Find someone else. Easy.

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Posted by: Apache_boy | 2008/07/25

Firstly Bo, and please, this is just my opinion, but i do take some offence in your reference to someone as a gay... he is still a guy... and being gay is more than just haveing sex with a man, its about love and commitment... sorry dont want to offend you, its just my opion

As for sexual satisfaction, i feel this is purely a matter of communication... you need to make yourself heard, sit him down and discuss it with him, if he still doesnt want to " help you"  out, you can reconsider... but one more thing, a relationship is based on more than just sex... sex is a part of it, but only a small part and it seems to me, the part that causes the most problems in relationships...

Just my 2c worth...

Good luck and keep posting...

Hugs n love

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