Our expert says:
Maybe he didn't care, maybe he was bothered but tried to pretend not to care. But his lack of proper attention to you must indeed have been upsetting and hurtful. His aversion to pregnancy --- does he not want another child, or does he not want you to run the risk of another , miscarriage ? Its an old and sexist attitude to expect the woman to have the larger operation for a sterilization and for the man to be squeamish about having the simpler procedure of a vasectomy. Overall, it does indeed sound as though he is being immature and selfish. Is there any way to persuade him to join you in marriage counselling to see what might be possible to work out ?
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