Our expert says:
It is no-one's place to determine whether you are gay or not. When clients come to see me to explore their sexual orientation I usually discuss the following three questions with them to help them come to their own conclusion about where they fit on the sexual orientation spectrum.
1) When you are out and about and you notice people to be very attractive to you ... which gender are they?
2) When you fantasise and/or view erotica or porn during masturbation, which gender do you usually fantasize about or pay attention to in porn; and when you fantasise about and view them which turns you on naturally the most?
3) Which gender do you find yourself most often finding yourself romantically drawn too and falling in love with?
These questions often help clients figure out whether there is a distinct gender and whether this means for them they are heterosexual or homoxesual, or dominantly heterosexual or dominantly homosexual or whether a gender does not dominate significantly and that they identify as bisexual.
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