Posted by: palpats | 2008/10/15


9yr old grandson very bright and quite in school but when comes home screams and shouts throws things around does not tidy leaves everhthing in a mess doesnt listen to anyone wen they hav guests then all the family are tense cause they dnt no what he will do next bahavior affectin all the family is it because of the school which is very strict also he has slight hearin problem plese advise becaus parents are worid he mite get worst wen teenager

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smile is right ---he behaves well at school, proving he is entirely capable of doing som, because they have a disciplinary system he knows and respects --- I suspect there is no such system at home. And he behaves accordingly. Seek parenting classes, chat on the Parenting Forum, and watch useful shows like Supernanny on the BBC / DSTV channels, to learn the relatively simple techniques that work. Clear and unambiguous, fair rules, applied uniformly, with set penalties ( loss of things he likes ) for breaking them, and set rewards for keeping to them, are what is needed

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Posted by: smile | 2008/10/16

It seems like you are not diciplining him at home,seek some parent classes and talk to him dont shout or beat him ,set some house rules and make it clear if he doesn' t follow them he will lose all his toys,no tv and no playing with friends after school.

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