Our expert says:
My thoughts are that the ex-wife is using the poor child and her strange demands about his eating patterns to get at you and make your life a misery. If you do go to court, get a dietitian as one of your witnesses and she will confirm that your home cooked meal with dessert eaten in the company of his family, plus water if he should get thirsty at night is by far the more balanced nutritional and psychological option. Tell her that eating milk and cookies at bedtime could cause weight gain and also tooth decay. Check if she makes him brush his teeth after these snacks, if not, you can point out that she is harming him and the health of his teeth.
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