Our expert says:
Why stay with someone where there is no love or romance ? Why are you still trying, when i sounds as though she isn't trying ? And why are you supporting her entire family ? Why isn't she doing so ? Sounds awfully as though you are being used.
As for getting out, simply tell her the support has now stopped, and the "relationship" is over, as you have better things to do with your affection, time and money.
She should unpack her own baggage, with the assistance of a counsellor
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