Our expert says:
Well, we don't all maintain our libido / sex drive at boiling point, over the years. And getting exhausted is an excellent way to extinguish it, too. And it sounds as if you're running into some of the disadvantages of working for one's spouse --- sleeping with the boss doesn't seem exciting, and there's nobody at home to complain to if he's a bad boss, nor at work if he's lazy at home ( and failing to share the kids chores is unjustified ). As you say a hired lady can do basic housework, but can't be a Dad. So you're one of the growing number of single parents who happen to be married ! Who could possibly maintain sexual interest in the selfish oadf, under these circumstances ?
I wonder what he'd do if, when the little one wakes you at night, you brought the child back to be for a short while ?
I agree with Inc that marriage counselling would be a good idea, but he may well be too selfish and self-centred to agree. Even then, individual counselling for you might help to clarify your options for you to make a better informed choice.
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