Our expert says:
Thank you for the e-mail. Sometimes by just writing such a long e-mail it is quite therapeutic as it gets you to vent a lot of anger. Between the lines I read anger, frustration, hurt and most of all rejection. I see lots of he says - she says stories going backwards and forwards between you, him and his mother.
There are no quick fix answers. The two of you must either sit with a mediator, or a third person (ideally not his or your mother) and come to some adult agreements. Contact FAMSA in your area and get some information on the services that they render.
I'm also forwarding your letter to Cyber Shrink as this forum deals with Sexually related issues.
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