Our expert says:
I understand how you could form such an emotional concern, even i there's really no factual basis for it. Obviously an adoptive mom is rather likely to be unable to have children of her own, which is why she would adopt. But whatever the reason for thet inability, would for the same reason of adoption, not possibly have been passed on to you, and couldn't affect your own fertility at all.
Yes, people so easily say "Don't Stres !" - and it it was actually quite that easy, they'd have no need to even say it. Some counselling of the CBT form could help you to learn to unlearn this bad habit of holding so firmly to a negative and inaccurate bad expectation. And within yourself, recognize that you are sabotaging your own wish to have children, by assuming the worst before even really trying - worrying before the event, is like paying NEXT year's rent as well as this years.
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